Jimmy IV
SexyCoolLounge
Podcast

Jimmy IV
SexyCoolLounge
Podcast

Get to
know the
Creator and Host

Jimmy IV
is the creator and host of the
Jimmy IV Sexy Cool Lounge podcast
and the 5M Movement.
His mission is to connect with
5 million souls,
one vibe at a time,
through positive energy
and inspiring others to radiate
good vibes into the universe.


💜🌎💜

At Birth
January 1967

Youth Basketball
10 & Under


Personal Fitness Coach Fitness Model 

All Natural Amateur Bodybuilding Champion

Live Love
and Laugh

Find Your Frequency 

Finesse at
Age 50

Radiating My
Vibe in
my 50s

Life isn't about waiting for permission
to be great, seize the moment,
bask in the rays of sunlight.
Grab
the fucking spotlight
and simply
"SHINE"

The most beautiful energy you'll ever see is your own!

I'm
not
a type.
I'm
a VIBE! 

Be
in love
with your life. Every minute of it.

I'm 55 years young now and I won't waste another moment on peoples drama, micro-cheating nonsense or negative energy. I'll choose to be more selective with whom I share my energy. too as I inhale good vibes
and exhale
bad memories. In 2022, I have a new writers pen to write the next chapter of my journey.  

I inhale good vibes and exhale bad memories.
In 2022,
I have a new writers pen
to write the
next chapter
of my journey.

To:
My Hero,
My Dad

When it’s all said and done for me on my life’s journey on earth. I hope to have made you proud by sharing my life story of being a kid whose bond with his dad transcended all childhood Super Hero’s. Every child should always have the feeling that no matter what happens, their dad will kick down "ANY DOOR" for their kid. You always gave me that feeling and I’ll continue my mission to reach (5M) other vibes within my “Jimmy IV Sexy Cool Lounge” tribe.

Miss you everyday,
Love Always!
Your son ~ Jimmy IV

Shout Out to the
Friends who Encourage
Your Dreams!

If you don't ~ know,
"now you know". 
Information
to help you grow,

Your Vibrational Radar

This section is dedicated
on bringing awareness into the
universe to the misleading, lying,
deceiving, micro-cheating vibes,
that try to run game around
your vibrational radar. 

Ever had someone blame
you for how you reacted
to their disrespect?

"That's Manipulation"

"They don't lie to you,
because the truth will hurt
their feelings. They lie to you
because, the truth might provoke
you to make the choices that
won't serve their interest". 

Micro Cheating

Is defined by acting dishonestly and unfairly,
and micro-cheating tends
to be where the actions themselves may be
smaller—texting, conversation, social media messages and
social gestures,
but the intention is
a betrayal of the
romantic relationship
the person is in.

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How
partners can "Cheat"
without Cheating!

For betrayed partners, it’s not any specific sexual or romantic act that causes the deepest and longest-lasting pain to them and to your relationship. Rather, it’s the lying, the secrets, and the manipulation. The loss of trust is, for betrayed partners, both emotionally and psychologically devastating.

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How to
deal with
"Lying" in a Relationship

Lying is a deviation from the truth, and lies hurt. Lies are commonly used as tactics to mislead the other person away from shame, guilt, blame, and conflict. Once a partner lies, they directly act against honesty and respect, resulting in cracks and deterioration in your foundation. This loss of honesty can lead you to experience similar thoughts and emotions to the stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. In order to create a space for recovery, you must know what you are facing and why.

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3 Signs of
Text Message Cheating

All cheating causes pain, but because text message cheating can literally happen while together with your partner it can be especially hurtful. It doesn’t take physical contact with someone else to cause deep wounds and break the trust that’s so crucial to a healthy relationship.

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Tricks
Cheaters Use
On Social Media.

When someone comments on people's social media photos, updates, and statuses, the activity can usually be seen by others. Social media cheating consists of not only flat-out flirting, but can also move further, to hidden flirting and sexting. The smart social media cheater will send DM's to the people he/she is cheating with, either from their main profile or from their fake profiles. If something feels off, chances are, there is a good reason for it. And remember, if someone cheats on you behind your back and lies to you, they are not worth being with you anyway. 

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What Is
Emotional Cheating?

Close connections with others are essential to self-care, which is at the foundation of healthy relationships, whether you're single or partnered. There's no way one individual—whether a soul mate, lover, boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, or spouse—can meet our vast and varied needs. Ideally, however, your relationships with outside people are there to empower you to show up more honestly and authentically in your primary relationship, to help it thrive—not to contribute to its decline..

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The danger behind talking to an "Ex" 
while in a Relationship

Honestly, you can’t, and to think of it, there isn’t any need to be in contact with your ex. The reason is that whatever you had with that person will echo in your current relationship. What happens if you are suddenly caught up in a sacrificing situation? Who will you prioritize if your ex suddenly needs you? Whose feelings do you sacrifice?

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Why
"Lying" by omission is just as hurtful and damaging to Relationships

Lying by omission is when a person leaves out important information or fails to correct a pre-existing misconception in order to hide the truth from others.

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Love and Lies
do not mix,
Here's Why

Love is built on trust, plain and simple. If you are in a love relationship, it is because you trust the other person. You cannot have a healthy relationship with someone if you do not trust them. You may feel that the lies you are telling aren't that big of a deal, but your partner will not feel the same way when they find out about it. No matter how much you think you are going to be able to get away with, lies always end up surfacing. 

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Compulsive
Liar
vs. Pathological Liar

A pathological liar manipulates and deceives others without guilt or regret. Compulsive liars on the other hand seem to have some control over their falsehoods and their lies are often without purpose or direction. They often lie just for the sake of lying whereas pathological liars respond to their agitation, often without situational stimulation. Pathological liars are usually egoistic and have low levels of self-pride. One hallmark of pathological lying is constantly changing stories. Because pathological liars tell so many falsehoods, they often cannot remember their previous lies, so they continually invent new, often contradictory stories.

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Is flirting cheating?
Yes,
flirting
is cheating!

Flirting is cheating because it's breaking a boundary within a committed relationship. In a committed relationship we agree to give certain parts of ourselves to our partner. When we're flirting, we're giving sexual interest and attention that only our partner should get -- we're giving it to somebody else. Flirting with someone when we're in a relationship is unloving and it's disrespectful to our partner. That may not be our intention, but it's a result of flirting.

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